Focus on Your Success

I would like to announce my new business Focus on Success and welcome you to my life changing informational blog. My goal is to empower attendees of my meet-ups; Mastermind4Success and Tea & Tap, as well as my wonderful clients, and you the reader of my blog with tools to deliberately create the wonderful lives you choose to live.

Previously I have been empowering others to eliminate fears, become non-smokers, and more effective public speakers. Basically I have helped anyone who had something they chose to improve or eliminate in their lives. Due to genuine caring, consistent support and ongoing communication with my clients it was brought to my attention that I have created myself as a success coach.

This blog is being created as one of the many ways I use to share my successes and be an inspiration to others. I will focus on some of the tools I've used to empower me to attract the people, situations and events into my life I enjoy. I'd like to point out that the word enjoy usually brings up the vision of an experience that is fun, positive, all good. While I do enjoy pleasing experiences, when I enjoy something it also refers to people, situations or events that I derive a benefit from. When someone shows me a behavior I choose not to replicate, I appreciate the contrast they are showing me and I am grateful for the ability to behave in a manner that feels better to me. For example when I used to pay for something in the store and the cashier would hand me my bag, if I would say "Thank you" if they didn't respond I saw them as rude and allowed it to annoy me. Sometimes I would sarcastically say "You're welcome!" as I walked away. This didn't really make me feel any better. I'm now able to enjoy the situation by realizing that the world is a place where we have many contrasts which we can appreciate. I allow myself to be the type of person I choose to be. If I do come across someone who behaves in a way I don't like, I'll say to myself "Thank you for the contrast, I choose to be a pleasant person." I also now use my power to experience positive interactions by focusing on appreciating the pleasant people I attract; I find myself attracting more pleasant people this way.